I have debated on whether I should post this or not, but I have no idea what I am doing and I could really use some advice from all you professional moms out there. So, if anyone is offended by the subject matter, sorry!
I want to breastfeed Noah until he is 1 year old but I also want to incorporate solids. I have been feeding him oatmeal cereal mixed with a veggie at night and breastfeeding him a little bit after the cereal. I think what I want to do is get to a point here pretty soon where I am only breastfeeding in the morning and at night. But, I have no idea how to go about doing that or even if that is a good thing to do. I am so clueless. I have read a ton of articles online about it but they were all pretty vague. So, I am going to shoot off a bunch of questions and I hope you guys can help.
1. How do I start taking away breastfeed meals?
2. At a meal that has replaced breastfeeding, how much solid food do I give him? Tonight I feed him a Tbsp of cereal mixed with 1/2 a 2.5oz thing of peas and 1/2 of a 2.5oz thing of a fruit. And he was still opening his mouth and fishing for more. Is that too much? Not enough?
3. He is 8 mos old now. Can he have juice? If so, could I bring juice and some of those baby puff cereal things to tide him over at church instead of breastfeeding during Sunday school?
4. Does it matter when I feed him fruits and when I feed him veggies? Like, should I be feeding him fruit in the afternoon and veggies at night or does it matter at all?
5. When it comes time for me to wean him completely how do I keep from getting to full? Because if I breastfeed him or pump to get relief doesn't that just keep the milk supply going?
6. Like I said before, I think I would like to get to a point soon were I am only breastfeeding in the morning and at night. Is it okay to do that? I mean, will he be getting what he needs from the breast milk if I only do it 2 times a day?
Thinking about the whole weaning process kind of stresses me out. Can you tell?! :]
Anyway, I know there are probably a ton of different ways to go about this but any and all advice would be greatly appreciated.